Sunday, February 7, 2010

What should we do about my husband's mom that keeps calling false reports of child abuse?

MY HUSBANDS MOM DOES NOT WANT US TOGETHER AND SHE KEEPS CALLING CHILD ABUSE HOT LINE ON US? DCF KEEPS CLOSING THE CASE OUT NOW 2 TIMES AS NO INDICATORS FOUND. NOW SHE SAYS SHE IS TAKING US TO COURT TO GET CUSTODY CAUSE SHE SAYS SHE SHOULD BE THEIR MOM. WHAT SHOULD WE DO? THE KIDS HAVE BEEN SO UPSET WITH THEIR GRANDMOTHER DOING THIS.What should we do about my husband's mom that keeps calling false reports of child abuse?
I would contact an attorney, if in fact she is trully making false reports. She will not be able to ';take'; your children if you and your husband are providing a safe and loving home/environment for your children. Hope that everything works out for the best.What should we do about my husband's mom that keeps calling false reports of child abuse?
make sure you have the false reports with you WHICH you can do and then ask the courts for a restraining order against the grandmother as she is causing damage to your family...bring letters you name it IF you have proof of her wanting to break you all up..emails whatever you got..AND DO NOT I repeat DO NOT send her anything that is threatening you name it





sounds to me also YOUR husband needs to tell her to accept you all or loose him as well





she sounds LOONY!!!!!!!..I hope it goes well for you all and HOPEFULLY be resolved





best wishes and lots of prayers for you all





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As there is no proof that there is child abuse your mother-in-law has no way of getting the children. There has to be proof of child abuse before anyone can take the children. If you go to court she will lose the case and the children will not have anything to worry about. It sounds like the woman could have problems if she is making threats.
Time to have her picked up on false report filings. Talk to DCF to see what options there are for you to stop her. Get a lawyer if you can afford one, not everyone can, but you should really think about a lawyer. Put a restraining order on her, yes, his mother, for harrassment and for her filing all these fake reports.
Get a lawyer, get a restraining order, keep a journal and tape all converstions, do not alow the grandma to see the kids as she is obviously mentally ill. Move to a different state. Everything she is doing will eventually come back and bite her in the A**.
I would stop all contact with her and report the harrasment to the police. Filing false reports will eventually get her into trouble. I would also find an attorney, I don't think she can seek custody of the kids with no concrete evidence of abuse, neglect, etc.....
I agree with all the posters. Also be certain to save all documents that relate to the unfounded cases that she opened against you. It will show the judge what type of person she is, and how she is attempting to manipulate and waste the judicial system's time.
You could sue her for calling CPS for malicious reasons. These agencies don't have time to waste on bogus complaints and the courts would be happy to slap her down over it. Maybe that'll put a stop to this. I'm sorry, she sounds like a total lunatic.





p.s. if you can't afford a lawyer, check out Legal Aid.
Get a restraining order. And don't allow her to see the children. If she takes you to court for visitation (which grandparents can do) bring the false allegations of child abuse and show how much has hurt her grandchildren.
File an exparte against her at your local court house. Because if she continues to harass you they will arrest her. You have more to do in taking care of your children than dealing with a crazy woman who needs psychatric help.
If she keeps filing false reports, she's going to get into trouble.





I would not allow my children to spend time with her and if it continues to be a problem, I would move away.
DCF has found no indicators, have them present in court the judge will laugh her out of court.
get a restraining order agenest her and file a haressment lawsuit for slander in other words talk to a lawyer
Get a really, really good attorney.
cut off all contact. she is definately a threat.

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