Sunday, February 7, 2010

How can my fiance and I get his ex-wife to stop filing false reports to CPS out of vindictiveness?

Here's the issue...My fiance's ex-wife is insanely jealous because he has moved on with his life and we have a child together. She falsely accused him of child abuse/sexual abuse and the case was dropped by our county prosecutor due to lack of evidence. His ex-wife is obsessed with our life together and has decided to continue communicating with our local family service office to elaborate on her story. The file still exists with family services and now they are breathing down our necks due to her vindictive actions. Can anyone offer advice on how to deal with this psycho?How can my fiance and I get his ex-wife to stop filing false reports to CPS out of vindictiveness?
women will do that when they are hurt, hurting people hurt others. not much one can do, u can lock your doors on the thief but not a liar. but sooner or later the family services and prosecutors are going to get tired of her false allegations.u can't deal with a person like this, and if he met u before the divorce, while he was still married to her, this is the reason, and she will stop at nothing to inflict pain on u. sooner or later liars get seen for just who they are, and its like the little boy who cried wolf, no one will take her seriously.if u had anything on her u could counter her.How can my fiance and I get his ex-wife to stop filing false reports to CPS out of vindictiveness?
Keep everything writing down, dates and times of problems with the ex. Also keep a copy of all documentation you can get on her false accusations. Get a lawyer and then proceed to court for a restraining order, and a modification to child custody (if they had a child together?) on grounds of continued harassment, false accusations, etc. Also request that the courts force her to get counseling.
Did you ever hear the phrase ';love is blind';? You had better be careful or you may find out that his ex has a good reason to be reacting in this manner. You may WANT to trust that your fiance has not abused the children but you cannot know this for sure. Let the family services organization do their job. In the end, their results will vindicate him if he is innocent and that will be the end of it.
I would move.





But if you can't do that, I suggest sue her. You can get her for slander, false accusations, harassment, and emotional damages. I think she's quit then.
Lack of evidence is not the same as being found not guilty. It sounds like there are more to these accusations than mere vindictiveness.
yes. do not retaliate or respond to her. your fiance should ignore her as well. anything else would only lead her on and fuel the fire. just go on with life as if she does not exist.
If this has caused you to lose money in any way, file a slander or liable suit against her.
make sure you keep a diary of any event the you feel is relevent


keep any court paper work including the one that got thrown out of court they are extreemly valuable.


Do not be nasty towards this person it will only agrivate her more


I any services come to see you regarding these false claims eg family services just be honest with them without being nasty towards any other parties also get some character referenced for keeps sake from people you may know eg teachers, police any one in law firm even a justice of the peace dont get them of family members %26amp; christian ministers they are held in high regards because they place there values very stong on families. these character references will be extreemly valuable.


seek legal advice.


Now this is extreemly important.


If this becomes a court case dont do the foolish thing of being nasty in the court room just state the facts use yes or no answers unless asked to elaborate.


Ignor all of her actions and false claims if she presents them to you or your partner or anyone else all she wants is to make you crack under pressure.


Eventually people like family services will see that your family is very well balanced and she will get whats comming to her she will probably get fined for being a public nuisence

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