Sunday, February 7, 2010

If your ex was constantly making false reports to law enforcement trying to get you into trouble?

She even filed a complaint through civil court claiming I threatened her and her two children (from a previous marriage) Not only did she falsify court documents, but she commited perjury, and convinced her kids to take the stand and commit perjury. Luckily I had the truth on my side, and surveillance footage from the place where she claimed I voilently threatened them. The footage proved my innocence. The footage also shows that she falsified court documents, committed perjury, and tampering with witnesses (her children) VERY SERIOUS CRIMES(all are felonies). I have not brought the surveillance footage to law enforcement. If I do, she will be charged with some serious stuff. I can't always be in a place where cameras will show my innocence. She will continue to try and get me in trouble, and have her kids lie to get me thrown in jail. What would you do?If your ex was constantly making false reports to law enforcement trying to get you into trouble?
You punish her to the fullest extent of the law. The fact is, women rarely get punished on par with men when committing equally serious crimes.





She may have borderline personality disorder, like my psycho ex-wife. The chaos and terror she causes in our lives is seemingly unending and I would give anything to have just such evidence so that I could get custody of my children and eliminate that sort of experience from their lives.





Look hard and find the truth...





Today, the divorce rate is so high due to no-fault divorce. If you have kids, for women - that means they hold all the cards.





A man today has to realize that, love and ';the dream'; aside, the risks to men/fathers far outweigh the rewards. Check the source.





Family court is tilted heavily in favor of women/mothers. Moms have all the rights, get all the benefits, and dad is too often relegated to a visitor in his children's lives while being an ATM machine fro mom. He can lose half (or more) of the cash, cars, house, investments, etc... and worse - the children.





Seriously, if I had known then what I know now about how the divorce machine sucks in fathers, grinds them up, and spits them out so unceremoniously, I'd have had a vasectomy at 18 (and I love children - have two of my own).





With no-fault divorce (the biggest killer of marriage and families) you don't need an excuse anymore to get a divorce. You just don't have to feel like being married anymore - and with that reality comes the truth - a marriage is no longer a contract, so what's the point except to put yourself and your future at risk when someone ';doesn't feel like it anymore?'; With women (who have children) initiating almost 3/4 of divorces today (most men don't even see it coming), it's the smart man who chooses not to get married and certainly not have children... and that's a shame.





Some great books about just how serious the situation is can be found at the source, especially ';Taken Into Custody'; and ';Divorced Dads: Shattering the Myths.';





Men need to wake-up and do so fast to realize that this problem is so much deeper than the ';surface stuff'; that make up most of the responses to a question like this.If your ex was constantly making false reports to law enforcement trying to get you into trouble?
Have her charged and if you have no kids with her and need to deal with her any longer... them move to a new city.





I live in Austin Texas, and I would say move there. Live Music Capital of the World!! It is awesome...





If you don't move she will have you thrown in jail and you won't be able to prove you are Innocent. It is just a matter of time.
don't meet up with her without someone present.





thing is about these types of accusations - it is a matter of he said she said - what she (and her kids) presume as threatening may or noy not be viewed the same way by you or the courts.





You have no proof she told the kids what to say - you can assume - but you have no proof what so ever.





You can say she falsified etc and so on - but she will not get into trouble for it - due to it being her, and her kids' PERCEPTION - a court just disagreed with her.





Mind you I'm not downplaying her actions - I'm just letting you know from a legal standpoint what the reality is. She wouldn't get charged with anything - even if you brought the footage anywhere. If that was going to happen - the judge would have seen to it immediately in the court room.
move
I would immediately file a restraining order, move away from her, and set up cameras outside and insider the perimeter of your new dormicile as soon as possible. I've been to jail. They don't call it the pokey for nothing. It's not worth it. Maybe a few years for her and a little safety/insurance for you will do you both some good. But no good can come of letting her do this to you. If you let someone take your wallet, they would. Same principal. Don't threaten her, but don't let her do this to you.
If you've got hard evidence, then I'd say go to the authorities with what you have, especially if you don't think she'll stop. Behavior like that is not normal and can even be dangerous. Do yourself and her a favor and turn her in before this turns into something WAY more serious.
You should have got her put away, caring about her is all good, but not when it's at the cost of your freedom.
Been there . . . done that . . . moved to a new city . . .
Hire an excellent Attorney and keep him on retainer.
Turn her in or move away--far, far away.
If she is harassing you, you can go to court to get a restraining order. The surveillance video could be used to support your harassment claim. Is there a reason you haven't taken it to the police yet? How did it come into your possession? If you don't want to involve the police, you could move. Is this connected to a divorce?
I'd say to take it to the authorities and make sure they look over it real well, and then file a lawsuit against her for it, and a restraining order, and let CPS be contacted, then the kids can go to a family member that won't use them. No woman I don't care what the case may be, is worth being thrown in jail when your innocent. She did the crime, so she should do the time.

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